the journey of life

Thứ Tư, 11 tháng 7, 2012

sex education ( pasta- my thinking , your aswering)


In recent years, the abortion rate in Vietnam has been rising and be always in on top of the highest rate one in the world. About 1.4 million abortions  miscarriages are performed annually in Vietnam, which has a population of 88 million included 99.99 % teenagers. The high rate of induced abortion is an alarming issue, indicates that the managers of health and family planning programs have not good quality, especially in education for teenagers>>good.
 (most of my friends )Vietnamese teenagers lack of knowledge about sexual behavior and reproductive health…>> are you sure<There are many reasons for that, but I think three main ones are people peoples' awareness, school education and teenager’s behaviors.

Vietnam is a traditional (where is japan?)country so that people are afraid of talking about sex.
>>As well as so many long feudal history countries, talking about sex in public  is not polite in vietnam.<<<
When we live in a society that all the people want to hide that problem, you are not an exception. It’s the reason why media the media or schools do not have any sex education programs. Instead of thinking that sex is a bad thing, people should be open-minded >>about sex education<<, especially parents >>the parents<<. A lot of teenagers said their moms and dads are reluctant to discuss >>sex << such a delicate problem so they feel discouraged to ask questions. They are not willing to talk about sex because they think that their children are not mature enough to understand >> which can easily hurt their innocent thinking. Nowadays >>Worser<<,  more and more parents hardly spend their time on in sharing with their kids nowadays.

However, they need to know that family is an ideal environment to educate children in their developing period>> however, they do not know that when their children ask something, it’s a good opportunity for them to learn something, expecially at home in developing period when has so many enigmas << . Children can share difficulties as well as questions in their lives with their parents because they are the closest friends to their children. Besides parents’ responsibilities the parentsresponsibilities, the school education plays an important role to educate teenagers. It is not only because they spend a lot of time in schools >> school<<  but also their peers and teachers influence them a lot on awareness. Many teenagers cannot share their feelings with parents but they can tell it to their friends, but sometimes it is not a wise advice  >>have some advice recieved from their friends. Some times, it is not a wise prediction because<< they don’t have real experience in life and think in a simple way >>simple<< so that adult’s care is really important. Teachers must be the people who teach them knowledge the knowledge and care about their thoughts to help them immediately. In addition, Sex education is still limited in schools and the lessons about sex are unusual in some classes. Schools lack of sex education programs, psychologist and sex educator seriously. I think Viet Nam should insert sex education >>not only sex education but also psychologists <<into schools so that students can easily broaden their knowledge as well as understand clearly about sex.

Then, they can avoid some complicated problems that occur in their lives. Conversely, a survey done about some countries in Asia shows that they are eager for sex education, so they have different methods to educate about sex. For instance, Indonesia and Korea apply sex education in schools through books or workshops. Besides, in Japan, sex education is compulsory for children from 10 to 11 years old. Those are some differences between sex education in Viet Nam and other countries. Vietnam is integrating with other countries, aside from some positive aspects there are many negative aspects such as free lifestyles and liberal thoughts from other countries that affect to young people seriously. That’s one of reason the reason why they are usually curious about new things, especially sex. It’s a sensitive issue in their society and people feel uncomfortable and seem hiding it from them, so they want to know it clearly. The only way they can find out the answers is through internet the Internet, books, magazines and even peers. They are from many different sources so it can make the young confused, frightening and mislead them in selecting this information and choosing which one is suitable for them. Moreover >>unfortunately<<, at this age, they want to discover, prove themselves and imitate adults’ action.

Some teenagers make love with their partner without condom>>and other the same way to prevent and sothat<< lead bad consequences such as: diseases or unexpected pregnancies… They do not have enough knowledge to protect themselves. In foreign countries, the young can actively prevent them because condoms are freely available. Obviously, young Vietnamese people need a better understanding of sexual health and theirs their rights in order to ensure safer sex and a higher quality of life.
        In conclusion, sex education is important, urgent and essential for children nowadays. Instead of avoiding this sensitive and complicated problem, open and respectful discussions of sexual matters could encourage healthy attitudes surrounding sexuality and positive relationships. The government must care more about adding sex education in media the media, school system the school system as well as families to raise people awareness about healthy sex. Sex education must be supported enthusiastically to help children form attitudes, beliefs and values about identity, relationships and intimacy. Healthy people, healthy society, definitely Vietnam can reduce abortion rates, HIV AIDS, as well as many social evils. I believe in a better future for young generations if we put sex education into action right way away(?).









How to stay self-motivated? Give some examples to prove your ideas.


 
The so-called “self motivated” is so simple: the process of  Aiming for the stars and reaching for the stars.Staying self- motivated is more difficult than  having self-motivated that’s why people said: "if you have impetus, you have all". So how to stay self –motivated?
First of all, do by yourself.
Let's write  your aim carefully and do it step by step in time.
Take pride on every milestone. For example: spend all day to your girl friend because of  your best presentation, etc. What this will lead to is that :your mind, your body is going to extremely strong.
Last but not least, keep it in your mind and never give up your purposes because of anything 
 Second, take the advantage from the outside your mind.
You want to be the best economist, let’s dream about Mr. Warren Buffet
You will do act tactfully like a diplomat, your idol should be Mrs. Hillary Clinton
What I want to emphasize is that : No one taxes the dream so that you do not give up dreaming of success.
Honestly, I have good experience in self-motivated. Seldom did I write a business essay. If I say that I have no time to do it, it is hard to do because of many schools' exercises,etc that means exactly a sophistry. I should have had a deliberate blueprint. Mr. TD came across my life and made something changed. My childhood’s dream : become a Warren Buffet of Vietnam has come back powerfully. I have many indeed-friends who always keep my goal in time. If I had met him earlier, I would be a successful writer and thinker sooner now.
In conclusion, we all were  born in our self-motivated, let’s never lose your covet, do it bigger and bigger everyday, I guarantee your dream will come true. Remember that: “Nothing is impossible.”



  PS: S2 S2 _ YTCT_ S2 S2 'S MOTIVATION.

Thứ Sáu, 22 tháng 6, 2012

h9's feeling.........i love it

Sometimes in my life I have a crazy time special in the mighnight. In these days, I think about my life, life around me and I wondered something... There are many things I must do now but I don't know what I should do first(*). I met a new friend and he showed me some points. Casualy, I sign in paltalk and met a special man and he showed me how we can change ' tư tưởng', expand our knowledge ,etc... Althought he taught me many things but I understood something from him >'''<. But at least, I will try to finish some exercises. I think this is the frist thing I must do. Don't think too much about the things are complicated and I can't do anything when I continued  thinking aimless(**). That's all. I must go to sleep now and tomorrow I will start my plan about learning English.
Get up at 7 am and sleep at 11pm. Try to do it! >'<
p.s: english is not too hard, it is just a tool that people use it to communicate each other about various subject and I need it for my job. So that I start learning English from a little things. It's just a tool!!! 3 months!!! I have 3 months!!! Hope that everything will be done.
staring a new day, let's listen this music
: lights----ellie goulding

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i love your feeling, your expression....and i have a topic lol:
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There are many things I must do now but I don't know what I should do first
>>I’m actually disturbed of so many things nowadays because of so many things that are put on my shoulders and I hardly know what to do first
>>So manythings are put on my shoulders and i hardly know what to do first.

 >>topic : how to stay self-motivated?



 

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.                6.Fragile /  [ adj ]
/  'frædʒaɪl /
= Easily borken; breakable; weak; frail.

(Dễ gãy; có thể gãy, bẻ gãy; yếu; mảnh khảnh.)
Ex: The handle is fragile; it will easily break if you use too much pressure.
(Tay cầm ấy rất mỏng manh; nó sẽ dễ dàng bị gãy nếu như anh ấn xuống quá mạnh.)

7.               7.Galore / 30: [ adj ]
/ gə'lɔ: /
      Plentiful; abundant (galore always follows the word it modifies)
           
       ( Nhiều; phong phú (galore luôn luôn đi theo sau từ mà nó phẩm định)
Ex: There were no failures on the final test, but on the midterm there were failures galore.
(Không có ai rớt trong kỳ thi trắc nghiệm cuối cùng, nhưng vào giữa khóa thì số người rớt nhiều.)

8.      


           8.Genuine / 30: [ adj ]
/ 'dʒenjuɪn /
= Actually being what it is claimed or seems to be; true; real; authentic.
                                   

          ( Thật sự đúng như tên gọi hoặc đúng như người ta thấy; thật; thật sự; đích thực.)
Ex: Jane wore an imitation fur coat that every one thought it was made of genuine leopard skin.
(Jane mặc 1 chiếc áo lông thú giả mà mọi người nghĩ rằng nó làm bằng da báo thật.)

9.        9. Hostile / 30 : [ adj, n ]
/ 'hɔstaɪl /
= Of or relating to an enemy or enemies; unfriendly   
 
       

( Thuộc hoặc có liên quan đến kẻ thù; không thân hữu.)
Ex: It was not immediately announced whether the submarine reported off our coast was of a friendly or a hostile nation.
(Người ta không loan báo lập tức rằng chiếc tàu lặn được báo cáo xuất hiện ngòai khơi bờ biển của chúng ta là của 1 quốc gia bạn hay 1 quốc gia thù nghịch.)

10.    10.Impatient / 30: [adj]
/ ɪm'peɪʃənt /
= Not patient; not willing to bear delay; restless; anxious
             
( Không kiên nhẫn; không chịu được sự trì hoãn; bồn chồn; lo lắng.)
Ex: Five minutes can seem like five hours when you are impatient.
(
5 phút có thể xem như 5 giờ khi bạn nôn nóng, không kiên nhẫn.)

11.             11.Inter / 30: [ v ]
/ ɪn'tɜ: /
= Put into the earth or in a grave; bury
            

( Chôn xuống đất hoặc trong huyệt mộ; chôn cất.)
Ex: Many American heroes are interred in Arlington National Cemetery.
(Nhiều anh hùng nước Mỹ được an táng ở nghĩa trang quốc gia Arlington.)

should TA have a part-time job while studying?

Many people 'had worked' while studied in the school. They said that it’s the best memorable experience in their life. But, should the 'teenagers' have a part-time job along their studying?
Are you a student in high school, secondary 'school'?  You have a 'part-time' job, here are somethings will come to you:
First of all, that’s money. You can buy anything you want , pay the cost of living by your own. It’s a good feeling, all right?. 'moreover', it’s also a good chance to create your own business with the free finance. A young 'millionaire', why not?
If you don’t need money, no matter. More relationships will come to you. It’s up to you to choose a best friend who  maybe always behind you along the years. You know that: “ the more friends you have, the more success you do”.
'beside' the points, you have so much money and you don’t know how to spend it, the part-time job will teach you about the time value of money, how difficult to earn money so you can build it bigger forever. You have  a lot of friends in so many networks such as: Facebook, tweeter, etc but  the problem is you spend all day flirting to your friends instead of hitting the book or somethings in 'life'. I remind you that the part-time job is a key. You even have no time for yourself and then Facebook will disappear 'automatically' from your mind without any drags.
On the other hands, 'straining' at working would make you have nothing.  A real story about an honor 17 year-old Vietnamese girl who is living in texas, had been punished about  $ 100 and putted in the prison in 24 hours by the Houston court because of  many truancies. She took both full time job and part-time job that make her so tired to go to school. Although , her 'parents' were broken, she had to earn money for younger sister, older brother, and herself but in my 'opinions', overload in working is not good for any reasons.
So working besides studying is the best way to success but 'remember' that :
“ don’t spread your self too thin” .


pasta fixed no#1



Topic 1: should teenagers have a part time job while studying?

 Are you a student in high school, secondary shool?  You have a part time job, here are somethings will come to you:


Nowadays, many people have been working while studying in the school. They said that it’s the best memorable experience in their life, but it’s actually a hard time for them to do best at both studying and working. In my opinion, I agree that teenagers should have a part time job besides school for several reasons

Nowadays, many people had been working while studying in the school. They said that it’s the best memorable experience in their life. But, should the teenages have a part time job along their studying?


First of all, having a part time job will help you earn money. You can buy anything you want, pay the cost of living by your own. You do not have to depend on parents’ money. You earn money, you spend money, and I’m sure that you will do it wisely because it is not easy to earn money. You understand that deeply. So, part time job not only helps you to spend money by your own, but also teaches you how to save it and use it efficiently.  

First of all, that’s money. You can buy anything you want , pay the cost of living by your own. It’s a good feeling, all right?. Morever, it’s also a good chance to create your own business with the free finance. A young milionare, why not?


Secondly, part time job is a good channel to make friends. More relationships will come to you. It’s really important for you in the future because they are a good connection for you to other relationships. Especially if you want to be a businessman, a lawyer, It is really important for you in the future because they are a good connection for you to other relationships. It’s up to you to choose a best friend who may be always behind you along the years. You know that: “the more friends you have, the more success you do”.

If you don’t need money, no matter. More relationships will come to you. It’s up to you to choose a best friend who  maybe always behind you along the years. You know that: “ the more friends you have, the more success you do”.



Beside the points, if you spend time on working, it’s better than wasting time on Internet. A lot of teenagers spend so much time on playing video games, or access to social networks such such as: facebook, tweeter… The problem is you spend all day flirting to your friends instead of hitting the book or playing sport. It is bad for your health and your mind. Doing a part time job makes you busy with working, you don’t have free time for Internet and more real time for new experiences.

Biside the points, you have so much money and you don’t know how to spend it, the part time job will teach you about the time value of money, how difficult to earn money so you can build it bigger forever. You have  a lot of friends in so many networks such as: facebook, tweetter, etc but  the problem is you spend all day flirting to your friends instead of hitting the book or somethings in a real life. I remind you that the part time job is a key. You even have no time for yourself and then Facebook will disappear automaticaly from your mind without any drags.


On the other hands, straining at working would make you have nothing.  A real story about an honor 17 year-old Vietnamese girl who is living in Texas, had been punished about $100 and putted in the prison in 24 hours by the Houston court because of truancies. She took both full time job and part time job that make her so tired to go to school. Although, her parents were broken, she had to earn money for younger sister, older brother, and herself but in my opinions, overload in working is not good for any reasons. So working besides studying is the best way to success but remember that: “Don’t spread yourself too thin” .

On the other hands, strainning at working would make you have nothing.  A real story about an honor 17 year-old vietnamese girl who is living in texas, had been punished about  $ 100 and putted in the prison in 24 hours by the houston court because of  many truancies. She took both full time job and part time job that make her so tired to go to school. Although , her parrents were broken, she had to earn money for younger sister, older brother, and herself but in my oppinions, overload in working is not good for any reasons.


In conclusion, having a part time jobs bring you a lot of benefits. Besides you can earn more money for  life expenses, use time wisely, you can also create more relationships for your future. Always remind yourself to study and it is number one purpose. Be a smart person to help you balance your life. 

So working besides studying is the best way to success but remmember that :

“ don’t spread your self too thin” .



Thứ Năm, 21 tháng 6, 2012

academic words shop #1



1.CI'VILIAN: pronounce [n, adj]
A person who is not a armed- forces, the police or fire-fighting forces.

-meaning: thường dân.
-example: eight of the passengers were the soldier, one was a marine, the rest were civilians.
2.'COMPLICATED: pronounce [adj]
Not simple or easy, intricate
-meaning: rắc rối, tinh vi.
-example: if some of requirements for graduation seem complicated, see your guidance connselor.he will be glad to explain them to you.










3.CON'CUR :pronounce [v]
Agree, be of the same oppinion

-meaning: đồng ý, cùng ý kiến
-example: good sportsmanship requires you to accept the umpire's desision even if you don't concur with it.
4.CON'FIRM: pronounce [v]
State or prove the truth, substantiate

-meaning: chứng thực, xác nhận
-example: my phisician thought i had  broken my wrist and an Xray later confirmed his oppinion.
5.DIGRESS: pronounce [v]
Turn aside, get off the main subject in talking or writing.

-meaning: lạc đề.
-example: at one point in his talk, the speaker disgressed to tell us an incident in his childhood, but then he got right back to his topic.